building SELF confidence

Hello lovelies, how are you doing today???and hope you enjoying 2015....so letx talk, 

To me,self confidence is about being self-assured, showing self-reliance, or not being anxious or nervous.Self confidence is about standing up for yourself, about having the presence, the personal power, if you like, to regard yourself as equal to others and to behave in a way that reflect this.

Although you may not know it at the moment, there are some key factors which make you feel less confident. An important one is not being in control - or at least not feeling that you're in control. If you think of situations where you feel less confident, you're almost certain to recognize that the common factor is that they are beyond your control. This is why you can increase your confidence by rehearsing for some situations: going on stage, being in an interview, taking an exam - all of these things can be rehearsed to some extent, and the more you do so, the more confident you feel when you're in the situation "for real." 
I struggle with self confidence at times,so I thought of sharing this with you;;;

Things you will need:
motivation,self discipline and change.

Make sure you understand the concept of acceptance,you must accept who you are,you must realize you have good qualities ,unique in your own way and its important to understand all this about yourself.
 
Make a list of the positive things about you,forget your flaws or what you aren't good at.
 
Make sure you have a sense of humor, learn to laugh and not be so tensed all the time.
 
Start being honest with yourself and others.Honesty is the secret to many things.Them being good,them giving you courage.It's easy to lie but hard to tell the truth.

Forget the ideas of pleasing others,set your own standard and realize everyone is different.You don't have to live up with what others expect,to feel confident.


TIPS:
Stay Positive.
Smile and laugh more.
Don't beat yourself up all the time.

                                             I forgive myself for having
                                believed for so long,that I was never good enough 
                                               to have, get and be what I 
                                                           wanted.

Make a list of the positive things about you.

Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.html

Everyone has good qualities and it's important to understand that about yourself.

Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.html

Everyone has good qualities and it's important to understand that about yourself.

Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.html

Make sure you understand the concept of Acceptance.
You must accept who you are. You can't change who you are, and must realize you have good qualities. Everyone has good qualities and it's important to understand that about yourself.


Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.html

Make sure you understand the concept of Acceptance.
You must accept who you are. You can't change who you are, and must realize you have good qualities. Everyone has good qualities and it's important to understand that about yourself.


Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.html

Make sure you understand the concept of Acceptance.
You must accept who you are. You can't change who you are, and must realize you have good qualities. Everyone has good qualities and it's important to understand that about yourself.


Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.htmlvv

Make a list of the positive things about you.

Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.html

Make sure you understand the concept of Acceptance.
You must accept who you are. You can't change who you are, and must realize you have good qualities. Everyone has good qualities and it's important to understand that about yourself.


Read more : http://www.ehow.com/how_4889148_gain-self-confidence.htmlv