IT ROCKS BEING SINGLE--ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD

Hello single ladies,
You totally can enjoy your singlehood!
 
If single-hood was more acceptable then we would be much happier and at peace with being by ourselves. We would be at peace with being alone, instead of always trying to force the juice out of every union, force our ideals and expectations into every romantic interlude and feel pain and sorrow over lost connections.
When you are single you can do what you want, when you want and with whom you want. Being single is all about you. It is a special time to be true to yourself and be a little selfish. "You" is at the crux of embracing your single life.

Below are 10 reasons to embrace the fact that you are not in a relationship and love your single life.

1. When you are single, you can do whatever it is that you love, without having to compromise for someone Else's needs or desires. There is nothing you have to give up. You can indulge in your guilty pleasures or just simply be yourself without having to give up any part of your pleasure in order to codify someone else.

2. Not only do you not have to give up your pleasures, but neither do you have to explain or justify to anyone why it is you like doing them. This is liberating. Be yourself, no ifs ands or buts about it.

3. Guilt is something that we can definitely do without. But, so much of our relationships revolve around guilt. The aformentioned compromising and explaining are often things we do to protect our relationship from it's demise. We fear the loss. Instead of embracing impermanence and remembering what joys singlehood can bring, we often feel bad and guilty about our "selfish" ways. This leads to self- compromising behaviors.

4. No jealousy or insecurity, Jealousy can come from you or your partner. When you celebrate your singlehood, jealousy and insecurity about other people fall down by the wayside. Who cares anymore? The most important person has become you. The ability to live and let live suddenly becomes within your reach.

5. Partners not only want explanations and compromise, but they also may be jealous of your friends? Perhaps, they may limit the time you have to spend with friends. In many ways friends are more important than our partners. They are there for us when our relationships hit turbulence. Being single is a great time to nurture your friendships. So, hang out with your most friends and feel not guilt about it.

6. So often people lose themselves in other people, in their partner or in their relationship. Who are you? What is special about you? Singlehood is when you can really let yourself shine and be who you are meant to be. Try to discover yourself.

7. The crux of singlehood is the freedom to do what you want, when you want, how you want, why you want and with whom. There is no one to answer to, explain, justify and compromise for. This independence should be embraced. You want a quiet evening at home or an entire week of solitude. It is all yours. Just say the word. The act of self-care is easy.

8. Being single affords you the ability to pursue your dreams. Want to travel the world? Guess what? Being single makes these types of dreams much easier. No one to hold you back, Single people can do the things that those in relationships cannot.

9. You do not have to ever pay for anyone else. You make your own money.  no one telling you how to spend your money and no one asking you where your money went. Spend your money the way you want.
 
10. Singles don't have to explain why they feel happy, sad, angry, tired, moody, crabby or frustrated to anyone. Feel free to feel every emotion you have inside of you and not have to respond to anyone else about them.

This the time to enjoy the real you....Share with me what you think about single-hood.

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